
rumaged a bit more and found a nut that fitted

rumaged further found two new anti-rattle washers (serated ones)


After an hour on the wire wheel this afternoon the stud looks like brand new,
Spent the afternoon round the garage fitted the stud, rewired earth side of ecu back to the stud, have used crimp joiners until i can get to the car with a soldering iron and do proper soldered joints,
car started and ran fine in the garage, just need to get time to plug laptop in and monitor whats going on and see if i still got the noise spike,
Thanks to every one who has been looking for one of these studs,